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Secular in the South

I am excited to announce that Life Informed Therapy has been approved to be listed as a provider for the Secular Therapy Project. This would not have seemed like a big deal to me practicing New England, however, once I moved to North Carolina and now Ohio, I became more aware of how difficult it is to find a non faith based therapist. While I am not dismissing those who find comfort in religion, I do think there should be a better way to find a secular therapist. Nothing turns away a secular client like a therapist telling them their struggle is God's will. Unfortunately, even the largest therapy directory, Psychology Today, does not offer an option to filter secular therapists, which is why the Secular Therapy Project is so invaluable. #mentalhealth #counseling #therapy

Who are you?

When you are out with friends, in a work meeting, or strolling down the grocery aisle, do you feel like you are the same person as you are home alone? If not, why? Are you purposely changing who you are or are you subconsciously masking your personality to fit in? Is this exhausting? While everyone's situation is different, it is never too late to be who you really are. Continuing to live a life that suppresses your true self can lead to increased depression and anxiety. While multiple factors can influence a persons reason to hide their identity, Life Informed Therapy can help support you in making the transition to living authentically.

Embrace your creativity!

We have all heard the saying "There is no such thing as a bad idea" and maybe when pitching Sharknado someone figured this was the exception to that saying.... but this movie has made almost 800 million dollars!  When we squash our creativity, we become withdrawn, disengaged and lose interest in other things. Embracing what comes naturally to you can increase happiness, decrease stress and bring more meaning to your life. If you find you are constantly pushing away your ideas, let's talk and find out what's getting in the way of your happiness. 
Happy Taco Tuesday! 

Now Serving...Ohio!

I am excited to announce that I am now licensed in Ohio, providing in person counseling in downtown Cincinnati and online counseling to all residents of Ohio. 

Nap Time, Happy Hour for my Brain.

Only just a few years ago the idea of adults taking a nap gave the  insinuation of being lazy or unproductive. Luckily there have been increased studies showing the the positive effects of taking a short nap everyday. Due to these studies, more companies are installing "Nap Rooms" for employees to take a break and recharge. Yet there still seems to be some push back on the idea of napping during a break at work.  This stereotype that only lazy people nap during work can cause further distress and anxiety to someone who actually becomes more productive after a 30 minute nap than the person who overworks themselves because they are programmed with the idea that they don't need a nap. Naps are good for our brain, much like exercise is good for our heart, and yet I see no one scoffing at the idea of  their co-worker taking a 30 minute walk on their lunch break. I have always been someone who needed a nap during the day, regardless of how much I slept the night before and...

Finding Joy in the Present, Despite your Past

Finding your joy may be difficult this time of year, but it's important to identify at least one or two things in your life that make you smile, no matter how "trivial" or small they may be. While the past can be difficult to think about, it's crucial to give yourself credit for getting through it. Grief, job loss, financial stress, lost relationships and trauma all leave scars, some visible, some not. Those scars may be painful, but they make us who we are and are evidence of our strength to press on in search of peace and happiness. I think most of us would agree that we would rather show our strength in other ways and forgo the scars! Finding joy could be as simple as: Looking at funny cat/dog memes. Laying down for 20 minutes. Enjoying your favorite beverage in silence. Watching old movies or TV shows. Coloring (don't knock it till you try it again as an adult!) Going for a walk. Playing with your furry or feathered family member.  Cooking a new re...